
Hollis Vilagos
LCMHC, CGP
ADHD · trauma · attachment · high performance
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If your brain runs fast, loses track, and then beats you up for it, you are not lazy and you are not broken. ADHD is a different kind of wiring, not a character flaw, and the right support can turn the daily fight with focus, time, and follow through into something you actually manage.
At Prism Wellness, our ADHD therapists in Cary work with adults, teens, and kids to build systems and skills that fit how an ADHD brain really works, so life gets less loud and a lot more doable.
ADHD affects attention, impulse control, and activity level, and it shows up differently in everyone. Some people are visibly restless. Others are quietly lost in their own heads, missing details, running late, and drowning in half finished tasks. It affects kids and adults alike, and plenty of people reach adulthood before anyone connects the dots. Whatever it looks like for you, therapy can help you work with your brain instead of against it.
Adult ADHD is one of the most missed diagnoses we see. Maybe you got by on smarts and adrenaline until work, parenting, or life got too complex, and now the systems that held you together are falling apart. Adult ADHD therapy focuses on the real world stuff like executive function, time management, follow through, emotional regulation, and the burnout and shaky self worth that come from years of white knuckling it. If mindfulness helps you slow the noise, our mindfulness based therapy pairs well with this work. It also rarely arrives on its own. Where it travels with worry or low mood, our anxiety therapy and depression therapy run alongside this work rather than as a separate appointment, and self-esteem therapy helps with the years of being told you were not trying hard enough.
For kids and teens, we build focus, organization, and emotional regulation in ways that actually land at their age, and we bring parents in so the tools work at home and at school. If your child is juggling ADHD alongside anxiety or big feelings, our child and adolescent therapy supports the whole picture.
There is no one size fits all here. Your therapist builds a plan around what is actually getting in your way. Depending on your needs, that plan may draw on:
ADHD comes with a running commentary of I should have, I forgot again, what is wrong with me. Knowing that voice is unfair does not silence it. We help you build a felt sense of safety first, then quiet the commentary, solve problems in the moment, and build routines for focus and impulse control that stick.
Years of missed deadlines and lost keys write a story about who you are, and it is usually a harsh one. Narrative work helps you separate yourself from that story, reducing the self criticism, shame, and low self worth that ADHD leaves behind.
IFS works with the parts of you carrying shame about how your brain works, building identity and self compassion instead of another round of trying harder.
ADHD is not only attention. Hyperarousal, shutdown, and dissociation live in the body, and bottom-up work helps regulate those states directly so focus has somewhere calm to land.
Especially for kids, clear structure, consistent expectations, and the right rewards make a real difference. We help build systems that cut the daily friction and set everyone up to win.
Mindfulness strengthens the exact muscle ADHD strains, noticing where your attention went and bringing it back. It also takes the edge off the frustration and reactivity that ride along with ADHD.
For families, we coach parents on routines, communication, and behavior support at home and in coordination with school, so your child has the same scaffolding everywhere.

Focus work goes better with someone who gets it. Every ADHD therapist at Prism Wellness is licensed, and we will match you or your child with someone whose approach fits.

LCMHC, CGP
ADHD · trauma · attachment · high performance
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LCMHC-QS
Neurodivergence · burnout · identity
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We do not do formal ADHD testing, but we can point you to a trusted neuropsychologist for an evaluation and provide the therapy either way. Many people start therapy for the symptoms while sorting out a formal diagnosis, and that is completely fine.
Yes, and it is often the piece that has been missing. Adult ADHD therapy builds real skills for focus, time, and organization, and it helps repair the self worth that takes a beating after years of struggling in silence.
Yes. Medication and therapy do different jobs. Medication can turn down the volume, and therapy builds the skills and routines that help your child use that focus well. They work best together.
Look for a licensed therapist experienced with ADHD who can tailor practical, skills based work to your age and your life. That is what our team does, and a free consultation lets you find the right fit before you commit.
We accept Aetna, Blue Cross Blue Shield, Cigna, Tricare, and United. Tricare and United plans are seen by our fully licensed therapists only. You can see which networks each clinician takes on our team page, and we will confirm your coverage before your first session.
ADHD makes starting the hardest part, so let this be the easy one. A free consultation is a low pressure way to meet a therapist, ask questions, and see how it feels. When you are ready, we are here.